Lately the growth rate in divorces across the world has considerably increased. Couples have become so selfish and self centered that they do not bother about the consequences of a separation on their families and even on themselves. They are least considerate about their children too. Career and self dependence has made people blind.
A child who is about 7 to 10 years old is old enough to understand that there is a problem between his parents. A child is innocent and his mind develops as per what he watches at home. If he sees his parents arguing all the time and fighting like cats, he will learn the same thing. Moreover, he will develop a sense of insecurity. His intelligence will be underdeveloped and he will always feel that he is being not cared.
When this child grows up into a teenager, he becomes more aware of the world around him. When he looks at happier parents of his friends, he feels embarrassed and ashamed of his own. This child becomes a loner in his own group if friends and feels left out in the society. After separation of his parents, he stays with either his Mother or his Father. But do the parents realize how important both the parents are for this child? The guardian parent might get married to another person but will they ever try to know whether the child is going to accept the new parent or not.
When this teenager grows up into an adult man, he is left alone to survive in this world. It is completely his prerogative which path of life he is going to take. But if he takes the wrong path, his parents should be blamed because they were irresponsible and if he takes the right path it will be only him to be given the credit.
Don’t leave your children midway if you can’t stay with your spouse. Try to compromise and adjust for your child. He never asked you to bring him into this world, after all.
Linus Orakles
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