Bullying-Problem faced by children

Bullying is a real problem being faced by children in their school life. Research shows that over a quarter of children aged between 7 and 11 report that they are bullied occasionally, while one in 10 are bullied regularly. However, bullying is less frequent among teenagers.

Bullies are usually bigger and stronger than their classmates and more aggressive than their victims. Victims tend to be quieter and shyer. It would seem that bullies often come from strict homes where affection is not openly shown. Victims, on the other hand, often have very warm, loving families but it may be that they have not been encouraged to be independent and strong.

Though bullying often involves pushing, kicking, hitting or other violent acts, it can also be more subtle. Name calling, taking away toys, belongings or money, making threatening gestures or just being generally unfriendly are less physically violent. Yet, the damage done is same, if not more long-lasting. Alternatively, the abuse may be sexual, with unwanted physical contact or abusive comments. This emotional type of bullying can be even more difficult to deal with than physical violence.

Whatever the cause, it is important that parents observe and continuously inspect their child. Dealing with this problem as quickly as possible helps in curbing the effects that it can have on the victims. Children who have been bullied can grow up chronically insecure and have a poor self-esteem. Their education may also suffer. Concerning bullies, they are more likely to abuse on alcohol and turn to domestic violence and violent crimes.

Signs of victims:Parents need to be on the look-out for any signs since children are often afraid of speaking out. All of a sudden, your child may become anxious of going to school while no such problems existed before. Physical signs may be torn clothing, broken toys or bruising.

However, in the absence of physical signs, it may be difficult to notice if your child is a victim of bullying. Other signs that can be observed include becoming withdrawn, tearful, having trouble sleeping or frequent nightmares, among others. A child may also become disruptive or aggressive, and possessions or pocket money may mysteriously go missing. Constant check by the parents will help in identifying the problem at an earlier stage.
If a parent suspects his or her child of being bullied, he or she must try to get as much information as possible. Contacting the child’s teacher and the school principal is the next step. If the problem persists, local authorities should be contacted.

Linus Orakles
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