Mistakes? Change your attitude

It is possible for everyone to do a mistake. But, it may not be possible for everyone to avoid doing it again. Why do we repeat mistakes? Is it because of lack of seriousness? No, it is not always. We do see it very seriously, but it will be repeated. Whenever we take it more seriously, chances are more to do the same error again. This is because our activities follow our attention. After doing a mistake our mind will hang out on the same, leaving all right things and happy events. With all our mental strength, we concentrate at the mistake, and the mind will be full of confusions, guilty feelings, and embarrassment. This state of mind can very easily go to the negative side and thus leading to another error.

Giving so much importance to a mistake is like making a path for another mistake. If we can see the error in a lighter way, mental energy will be wasted for it. So the abundance of mind energy is not available for seeking various options for the next step. This is same in case of personal and official life. The mind should be concentrated and focused to have creative thinking. So, do not hinder the chances of good decisions and actions from our thoughts, by clinging to the mistake.

We should really care for our mistakes. Making it light will not make any difference in the seriousness, but it will avoid complicating and compounding the problems. It is difficult to laugh at our own mistakes, though it is easy for others. Laughing at other’s mistakes do not give any kind of pleasure, rather, as it is generated from jealousy, it makes your mind dirty. So, practice to laugh at yourself on your mistakes. This will definitely give a positive frame for the matters, and when it is positive, the solutions can naturally be originated. In this process what we are actually trying is, to create positive energy in mind. When we do a mistake, immediately our energy level can go down. To make it mount to the required position, we should use our inner capabilities. If you are going to worry on the mistake, the energy level will go to negative. A light mind only can see the things positively.

Mistakes are the milestones in the path of growing. Nobody can avoid them. Never infer the mistakes as your inability. If you change the way you look at your mistakes, you will see a great difference in life.

Linus Orakles
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